A few days ago, a former high school classmate contacted me. She explained the situation of a friend and co-worker of hers, who has fought breast cancer and had a radical mastectomy. She also described her as a fellow nurse with a big heart, who is not only determined to kick breast cancer's butt but to also take care of her family and patients simultaneously. Since chemotherapy has caused the loss of her long, beautiful hair, she is concerned about the affect her appearance may have on her patients. Now THAT is a true definition of nursing compassion!
My schoolmate asked if I would create a chemo cap for her friend and donate my time and materials. Needless to say, of course I said yes! Then I set out to make it as special as possible. Since her friend is a nurse in her 30s with a young, fun, loving personality. I wanted to make her something really special. Because this is the first time I've made a chemo cap, I asked fellow crocheters and knitters for advice. She needed something functional yet fun... soft enough that it wouldn't irritate her scalp... lightweight yet not too light that it would fall off during care giving... light enough to cover her head but not too warm... etc. Taking all of those elements into consideration, I envisioned a lacy-patterned cap that would be feminine, soft, breathable, cool and functional.
Here is what I created!
|Close-Up View of the Lacy Pattern and Scalloped Edging|
What I created for her was...
- A free-form crocheted lacy-patterned cap that is feminine and pretty;
- It's made with super-soft, silky baby fingerling yarn;
- It's breathable due to the open lacy pattern, allowing for plenty of air circulation to keep the wearer cool;
- Its open lacy pattern is fine enough to conceal uneven hair growth without worrying about it poking out through wide holes;
- It's functional because it fits snug around the face with a pretty scalloped border. Fitting snugly is important as to prevent slipping off while bending over (or in a medical field of work--caring for patients); and
- Because it is free-form crocheted, it's unique. Like snowflakes, no two hats made in this style will be identical. The style and basic design will be the same, but each time a hat is made, the stitches in the lacy patterns will be unique. I call THAT an added plus!
|The Hat with Simply the Buttons|
|Close-Up of the Buttons|
It warms my soul to do this for her. She is a complete stranger, but that doesn't matter. My sincere hope is that by wearing this lovingly-crafted hat, she will feel beautiful and confident. I also plan to make her another cap in a different color and style, so she can change up her look and have an alternative to wear when one is in the wash.
I realize how important it is for women in similar circumstances, who may feel a bit like they've lost a fraction of their femininity, to feel pretty and a little less self-conscious during their time of transition. That is why I'm offering this cap at a reduced price in my Etsy shop. I want to help serve people like her, who are fighting their own battles against the beast called cancer. Family as well as friends of cancer warriors (like my schoolmate) can make special requests to make something truly unique for their loved one. All I need to know is a little about the recipient's personality, color preferences and certain details about their lifestyle (such as hobby, profession, activity level, etc.) to ensure their custom-made cap fits as well as meets their individual functional requirements.
Thanks for stopping by and reading about my latest adventure. A few weeks ago, my friend informed me that my mystery client LOVES her hats, and that makes me the happiest crocheter on earth. Since then, I have made numerous hats for others purchasing for friends or family. Most has responded that their loved one is very happy with their hats. I am so pleased to hear this. <3